From Breakup Mess to Single Joy

Every now and then I remind myself how far I’ve come. I was a real mess 5 years ago. I was stuck in a dead end job, I had broken with my lover, I went through a traumatic court case to put my abuser away, and I was one year into therapy (which I still do once a week!)

Today, I have the jobs of my dreams, I have lovely friends, and I am working on improving all areas of my life. I am single, and I love it – I love being independent and even sometimes hedonistic haha; looking after myself only.

I know this is a cliché, but it does get better. Anyone who brings you pain regularly should not be in your life! Do things for yourself, love yourself, develop your relationship with yourself, because this is the most important and significant relationship you will have. Then, when you are happy and secure in your life, you will attract the same back.

I wish you all love – self-love! You are worthy, you are enough, you deserve happiness!