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YOU’RE NOT ALONE… BREAK-UPS HURT!!

Am i an exaholic?Are you an Exaholic? If you’re asking yourself that question, then chances are you’ve come to the right place. Are you having a difficult time moving on? Have thoughts of your ex been an obstacle to your growth? There are varying degrees of exaholism. For some of us, pain is the predominant feeling at the moment. We’re not able to concentrate too well, and we may be depressed. Some of us just don’t know where to begin. We’ve spent a great deal of time and energy on our ex, and find it hard to re-establish control over our own lives. We feel alone. Some of us are single, some are divorcees, and some may be divorcees with children. If only there was a pill we could take that would solve all of our problems right away.

Well, until that pill is available, it’s going to take hard work. It won’t be easy. And for many of us it will hurt. Emotional pain can be far more difficult to heal than physical pain.

This site takes a different approach from the lighthearted, superficial websites that seem to almost diminish what we’re going through. Enough of being told that we’ll get over it and that all will be ok. For us, it’s just NOT OK right now…

…which is why exaholics.com is here….to generate healing for and by exaholics themselves. This is a non-professional site. That means we’re relying on ourselves. Therapists are not giving therapy on this site. If you need a therapist, ask others on this site for recommendations. We are currently working on building our own database. For the purposes of this venue and only this venue, we believe we are more helpful to ourselves. We understand each other. We can relate to each other like no one else.

Most recent forum posts

  • Upset my dad is going to show up on my doorstep soon (sorta inviting himself) don’t really get along. He was a jerk to me growing up and he’s super creepy. Don’t need the stress 8( Wish I had someone who gave a shit but I don’t. Seems it never works out. Maybe its for the best. Im damaged goods

  • Ok. Today is a hard day. Going through things. Emptying his stuff out of the closet. I have a wave of emotions. Disbelief. Then hurt. Angry. And every once in a while a glitz of confidence to have a new start on life. This has been a long. Drawn out breakup with lies. Betrayal. And everything in between. It doesn’t matter who. …[Read more]

  • I am completely devastated. I am a single parent now and I think the hardest thing for me is not knowing who he left for. He owns his own business that services the community and everyone seems to know but me. This is a relationship that was over 20 yrs and right now I am still relying on his income until I find something. I made the…[Read more]

  • I am angry at the nerve of people. Noone on this site try to make anyone feel bad about wanting an ex. This forum is to post about how you feel not be judged for what’s posted!!! Everyone is entitled to their own wants and feelings – I think that is the purpose of this forum?? I may not be on this site any longer.